Dead Mom Walking
NATIONAL BESTSELLER
“A comedy for catastrophic times."
–CBC
“A hilarious memoir of effervescent misadventures."
–Toronto Star
“The year’s most unlikely knee-slapper.”
–Quill & Quire
“Dead Mom Walking is the book on grieving we all need right now.”
–Xtra Magazine
A whip-smart and darkly funny memoir about an unconventional family, the limits of wellness fads, and the mother of all catastrophes.
Rachel Matlow’s eccentric mom, Elaine, never quite followed the script handed down to her. Her bold out-there-ness made it okay for Rachel to be their genderqueer self and live life on their own terms. But when Elaine decides to try to heal her cancer naturally, Rachel has to draw the line.
What ensues is a tug of war between logical and magical thinking, an odyssey through New Age remedies ranging from herbal tinctures and juice cleanses to a countryside ayahuasca trip, and a portrait of a mother and child who’ve never been physically closer or ideologically further apart.
In facing their inimitable mother’s death, Rachel has written a book bursting with life—the epic adventures and epic fails, the broken limbs and belly laughs. As hilarious as it is poignant, Dead Mom Walking is about writing the story of your life only to find out that life has other plans.
Praise for Dead Mom Walking
“Dead Mom Walking’s jaw-dropping trick is the magically unbiased way it tells the whole story of its subject’s life. Matlow’s kind, determined humour shows it’s possible to endure the irreversible: the loss of the first love of so many lives—our mother. Intricately loving.”
— Thea Lim, author of An Ocean of Minutes
“How am I laughing at someone’s mother’s cancer? How? We think we can’t laugh about death, about cancer, about our mothers and their suffering . . .
and we can’t, but we can. And there’s so much relief in that.”
— Carolyn Taylor, Baroness von Sketch Show
“This brilliant memoir had me sobbing and in stitches in equal parts...
Dead Mom Walking cuts right to the heart.”
— Tegan Quin of Tegan and Sara
“This book is perfect. Dead Mom Walking is a deeply funny, incredibly
smart, and moving page-turner…I just can’t get over what
a stunning achievement it is.”
— Zoe Whittall, author of The Best Kind of People
“The characters are so charming you’ll simultaneously want to read the whole thing in one sitting and slow down so you can spend more time with them. Dead Mom Walking will break your heart and then mend it.
Read this book; call your mom.”
— Scaachi Koul, author of One Day We’ll All Be Dead and None of This Will Matter
“One of the most powerful stories I’ve read in a long time—intimate, astonishing, harrowing, and redemptive. Dead Mom Walking is such an important book, with lessons for everybody … I can’t get it out of my head.”
— Plum Johnson, author of They Left Us Everything
Excerpts from Dead Mom Walking
“Mommy Queerest”
Hazlitt, May 8, 2020
“Taking Hallucinogens with My Mom”
The Walrus Magazine, April 14, 2020
Press for Dead Mom Walking
“Conversations with My Dead Mother”
Death, Sex & Money, WNYC, October 12, 2022
“New memoir explores heartbreak over losing mother to cancer”
The Social, CTV, September 16, 2022
”Rachel Matlow’s new memoir dedicated to their mother’s battle with cancer”
The Morning Show, Global News, August 24, 2022
“Rachel Matlow on new memoir ‘Dead Mom Walking’”
Your Morning, CTV, August 8, 2022
“Laughing in the face of dark times—lessons for life with COVID-19”
Toronto Star, April 2, 2020
“A comedy for catastrophic times: Rachel Matlow's memoir about her mom's death is an unlikely comfort”
CBC Arts, April 15, 2020
“Memoir muses on mother's final years”
Winnipeg Free Press, May 2, 2020.
“Three mothers: an exploration of loss”
Halifax Examiner, May 9, 2020
“2020 Books of the Year: Editors’ picks”
Quill & Quire, November 16, 2020
“Why Rachel Matlow had to laugh away the pain after discovering their mother had cancer”
The Next Chapter, CBC Radio, April 9, 2020
“Why Rachel Matlow had to laugh away the pain after discovering their mother had cancer”
The Next Chapter, CBC Radio, April 9, 2020
“Rachel Matlow’s mother is dead. So why am I laughing?”
Xtra Magazine, May 8, 2022
“Mother’s Day reads: 15 books that celebrate every stage of motherhood”
Globe and Mail, May 7, 2020
“16 Canadian books to read for Pride Month”
CBC, June 11, 2020
“Cheers to the queers: 20 LGBTQ folks who were a beacon of light in 2020”
CBC, December 17, 2020